I think fake! I don't know why I feel negativity towards one of my friends who i used to have such a good time at uni with. It's just after the whole M thing and her getting wayy to involved and then going off and telling anyone and everyone she met about mine and his 'relationship' that i begun to really distrust her. Especially since she admitted to telling people that she told them bout my relationship with him and the icing on the cake was that he thought it was me! Big arguments etc. Nevertheless she stood there watching me getting very upset and not even saying sorry. After all that i couldn't believe she would do that and then him find out and blame me when it was her who was telling everyone what he was like. I moved on along time ago with regards to him and then at the end of uni she decided that she couldn't take the fact that me and C were such good friends (they were sex buddies for a while until he ended it because she wanted more) -was obvious from the start. C is one of my best male friends and she thinks we had/have a secret affair going on ,and one day i invited him for lunch and she got pissed off and after that day she would go on about M thinking it would annoy me which is didn't. I just wondered why she kept talking about him. Until the day he had a big go at me accusing me of all sorts.
Since that day i was mega upset but let it be, then after our exams we went on a night out and she got pissed off and left me in the club alone because
1. I didn't dance with her when she wanted
2. I was talking to my friend AJ who had been in Edinburgh
she got fed up and left! Then next day told me not to be pissed off and said that she didn't want to make small talk with the guys she was getting introduced to because she didn't know them. When i told her i didnt know anyone apart from AJ she didn't have anything to say.
I just left it and then there was the issue of graduation ball, she wanted me to pick her up because she didn't want to go on the bus in her dress. She was rude and said she wasn't going to get a taxi. I refused. Why should i go out of my way to pick her up! She is not poor, her parents pay for everything, her dad is an MD of a German company
Basically since uni has finished and graduation has finished non of us have heard from her because she doesn't need us to do anything. I sent her a lil message on facebook saying hey, hows u? Too busy to even get in touch eh
with a stick out tougue and she emailed me and said it was rude of me to start an email like that! Excuse me!! I told her it was a joke hense the emotion but never mind..she was telling me that she was busy at work and that is about as far as her e-mail got. Asked how i was and if i was excited bout Canada.
When i was replying i felt like i had nothing to say. Im not even sure why i got in touch with her in the first place. I just don't trust her anymore or feel i can tell her anything after the M situation because it is obvious she can't be loyal to her friends, especially when she thinks there backstabbing her and have sex with the guy she likes!!
kevinwilson
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doesn't sound much like a friend, from your description.
i wouldn't worry about it.
move on and let her be miserable!